Community, Intimacy, and Responsibility

This post is for the Carnival of Aces, Round 3. I am not a particularly community-oriented person. While I’m certainly not asocial, and I can get intimacy from multiple people simultaneously, I can never seem to get much intimacy out of communities themselves. The larger the community, the more I fall back away from it. [...]

Safe Spaces

Consider this a follow-up of sorts to my post on privilege and the tumblr crap that’s been going on lately. Most of what I was going to add to that post I already said in the comments, but I want to highlight one part of the discussion. Jay, who showed up in that post to [...]

Link Management

So I’ve been bad, guys. I haven’t updated my links list in roughly FOREVER. Back when this blog started, there were only a handful of asexuality-related blogs out there, and now it’s to the point where I can’t keep track. New ones are cropping up all the time, which is quite exciting! I’m starting to [...]

Overlap

As I understand, there’s been some hullabaloo lately on tumblr about whether or not asexuals, by virtue of being asexual, are allowed to call ourselves queer. I don’t have a tumblr, so I haven’t been following what’s going on too closely, but I understand there’s a group called Privilege-Denying Asexuals that insinuates that there’s some [...]