I planned to write my post for the Carnival of Aces quite a while ago, but something came up this month that made me reconsider what I had planned to write about. I’ve decided to go with the original idea, but make it more generalized than I had originally planned. My blog is receiving a [...]
Archive for February, 2012
Sex With Friends: An Asexual Perspective
Posted: February 29, 2012 in Carnival of Aces, Defining & Conceptualizing, Friendships, Relationships, Sexual ExplorationTags: asexual, asexuality, carnival of aces, casual sex, friend with benefits, friendship, fuck buddy, Relationships, sex, sexual exploration
Guest Post: The Afflicted Marriage and Great Compromise
Posted: February 27, 2012 in Carnival of Aces, Relationships, Romance, Sexual ExplorationThe following is a guest post by Laura for the Carnival of Aces. She is 44 and identifies as a heterosexual female, and her husband Tom is 48 and identifies as a hetero-asexual male. I think their story is an important one, which I have only seen being told previously on AVEN, where it tends [...]
Guest Post: Curiosity, Exploration, and Self-Discovery
Posted: February 18, 2012 in Carnival of Aces, GLBT/Queer issues, Guest posts, Relationships, Romance, Sexual ExplorationThe following is a guest post for the Carnival of Aces by henshin, who describes herself thus: I’m a 28 year old bio female, I identify as homoromatic or queer. It took me a long time (about the age of 25) to realise I was asexual because I had always assumed that sexual desire would [...]
Q&A IX
Posted: February 13, 2012 in Q&ATags: asexual, asexuality, asperger's, attraction, infallibility, masturbation, Q&A, sexual desire, Tim Gunn
All search terms appear exactly as they were typed into Google/Formspring, so I take no credit for any spelling or grammar errors. Standard Definitional Disclaimer: Asexuality refers here to a sexual orientation among humans. It does not have anything to do with biology, whether that means the biology of non-human asexually reproducing species, or humans [...]
Guest Post: Why Date An Asexual? An Interview with C
Posted: February 3, 2012 in Gender, GLBT/Queer issues, Guest posts, Polyamory, Q&A, Relationships, Romance, TransgenderTags: advice, asexual, asexuality, dating, dating an asexual, glbt, love, mixed relationships, mtf, polyamory, romance, sexual and asexual, sexual attraction, transgender
Since I started hosting guest posts, I’ve been bugging C (aka Cat Pajamas), my partner of roughly 3.5 years (and now gayancée), to write one for me. She couldn’t come up with any ideas for the longest time, and so to help her out and make it more comfortable for her, I sent her a [...]
Carnival of Aces: Call for Submissions
Posted: February 3, 2012 in Carnival of Aces, gray-asexual, Sexual ExplorationTags: asexual, asexuality, carnival of aces, sexual exploration
Apparently we didn’t have anyone doing the March carnival, so I volunteered! To that end, sorry that the call is a little bit late this month. I know that February is a short month, so it’s a little bit extra annoying because it leaves people with even less time to write. I think I will [...]